"In terms of the word feminist, a radical proposal seems in order: It's time to stop fighting over it and retire it as the historical artifact it seems to have become, because whichever side of the definition-debate you're on, it's unlikely your mind will be changed. How abouot we call someone who's a believer in equal rights and respect for personal choice something like a feminine-ista. Kinda like fashionista! A feminine-ista believes that women can work and/or stay at home and rise kids and/or run for president - i.e., make her life as full and gratifying as she can in any way she chooses, all while delighting in her "femininity". Lacy bra wearers unite! -Elle (Sept. 2011) Editor's LetterAs much as I enjoy a good lace bra or floral pattern, I don't expect all women to see the world the same way. It's great that feminine figures and aesthetics have joined the feminist creed in post-feminist ideology, but that does not capture every woman's goals. It's a disturbing trend that as the right goes further right, the perceived middle goes too. They've taken scientific theories and turned them into opinions, helped along by American journalism's propensity to fairness (equal time for two sides, but every story has more than two perspectives). Given science's goal of progress, theories do change (flat Earth, etc.), however they are closer to fact than opinion on the opinion-fact spectrum. What's the point of taking away the word "feminism"? Instead of changing the word, it would be more productive to the cause of equality to change the perception of the word.
You can identify as feminine and be a feminist. You can be masculine, gender-neutral, wear high heels or live in sneakers. The outside of a feminist shouldn't matter. It's the fight for gender equality, and the ability to create yourself as you see fit, whether born man or woman or something else.
As long as there's a sizable population that feels women need to be protected, there is a reason to have feminist counterpoints. Anderson Cooper retweeted a message the other day about the irresponsibility of sending women journalists into dangerous war zones (Libya), in which he replied, "men too?" (or something to that effect - I would link it, but I can't find it). People who think women are just as capable, but shouldn't be placed in danger like a man place us back. There can sometimes be a fine line between generally being polite, and being paternal.
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